Prospects want to be part of the solution. Think about working with your buyer not just to “sell” to them, but to help them achieve a goal with your help. This is the essence of collaboration: working together to achieve mutual goals. Like “helped me avoid potential pitfalls,” this one leads to trust. Set and meet expectations, don’t sugar coat anything, and don’t hold anything back, and the Prospects will trust you and appreciate your advice and knowledge.
In all sales positions, the company has the obligation to educate you about the specific product you are selling. The company operations manuals will provide you with technical skills and product knowledge. This knowledge however, rarely goes beyond that required to describe competently the product to a client.
I recommend that you set aside time on a regular basis during which you can deepen your knowledge (and hopefully your enthusiasm/love) of your field.
Your responsibility as a professional includes much more than learning elaborate descriptions. If someone Ire to say to you, "Tell me about the field you are working in," could you give them an interesting, in-depth explanation of how it started and where it is today? Perhaps you think that knowing the history or theory of your industry is not necessary for your day-to-day selling. The fact is that with an increase in knowledge comes an increase in confidence and authority. The result: longer lasting client relationships and more sales.
BREADTH OF K
It's also important to develop your ability to discuss a broad spectrum of subjects. Having depth of knowledge in your specific field without knowledge in a wide variety of topics puts an automatic limit on the number of people you can relate to and who in turn can relate to you. This is a serious handicap for a salesperson.
Anything worthwhile takes effort and this includes expanding your conversational horizons. A fast, concise and convenient way to know what's going on in the world is to subscribe to a news magazine which will expose you to science, politics, the arts, international affairs, etc. It is not necessary for you to have an opinion on all the issues, but being informed on them and keeping up to date by scanning a good daily newspaper will give you confidence and expand your conversational effectiveness.
I recommend that you study body language and try to be empathetic. Observe what people do with their bodies in different situations. Put yourself in their shoes so that you can be open to what's happening with them, but do it intellectually rather than emotionally.
For example, by studying body language and being empathic, you will be able to acknowledge when your client is too busy at the moment (foot tapping), and arrange to come back another time when they are more receptive.
YOUR ATTITUDE IS SHOWING
People don't seem to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character. In other words, if I think this is a miserable world to live in, then I live in a miserable world...and probably make it miserable for others to live in too.
Our attitudes are reflected in everything I do, including relationships with our clients. Our attitudes elicit different responses from our clients, so if I see them as jerks that can be manipulated, their responses will be entirely different than if I see them as fellow business people with whom I have a lot in common.
I can never be truly professional salespeople unless I develop a sincere respect for -- and healthy attitude toward -- our clients. Try thinking of them as valves through which your energy flows rather than as dams (obstacles) who will stop your progress. Only your positive attitude toward them will ensure the mutual trust, which is so vital to doing business successfully.








